The other day at church, I had a dear
older gentleman tell me that he wished they would use our young
people to read scripture instead of using him. While I understand
completely where he was coming from it wasn't until after he read the
scripture that a thought occurred to me. The man was completely
prepared. He had read over the passage a few times already and was
familiar with it. He even made a special comment before services
began that he liked to read over the passage a few times in case
there were hard names or places that required special pronunciation.
He was practiced in the passage for that morning. So after he read,
I realized just how much I gained from hearing him read. The older
gentleman who had read thousands of times before had felt like he had
"paid his dues" and was ready to retire from such menial
services in the church. But if only he knew just how much it meant
for me to hear him that morning. I think I will have to let him
know, and to encourage him to do this as much as he's needed.
I had heard this same sentiment from an
elder I knew many years ago. He was commenting that he didn't like
to offer prayers during the service as he felt like he was already
overworked and that he was "over-serving". "There's
plenty of others here in the church who could serve by leading
prayer" he said. I told him then that I appreciated him leading
prayer, and knew that he was serving in a big way, but that it was
good for us all to hear him pray, as his prayers were beautiful. One
of my favorite things he said in most all his prayers was the phrase,
"Thank you dear LORD for this 'gorgeous' day". It little
phrases like this that endears us to a prayer and to a person.
I think now back to when I was a young
boy, and hearing my grand-dad lead the church in prayer, and how I
cherish that memory. But what if my grand-dad had the same
attitude... of letting the younger crowd do most everything in the
service. I would have never had this memory of listening to and
hearing my grand-dad pray. I would have never learned all it was
that he was thankful for, and to hear the compassion and wisdom in
his voice.
I agree, we all have a place and we all
fill a need during our corporate worship. We all should be willing
to serve when needed or called upon, and I'm realizing more that I
need to contribute more myself. But my point is that it is very good
for the younger crowd to hear the older generation serve by leading
prayer, or by reading scripture. The older gentleman who read the
scripture showed us all what it means to be prepared, what it means
to take this service seriously, reverently, and respectfully. The
younger generation could do well in learning and patterning their
service after his fine example.
Thank you, sir for your willingness to
serve in such a small way for us all. You helped us focus on God by
your reading, and you helped us shape our own lives in our service to
God by your seriousness, by your reverence, by your preparedness, and
by your respect. May we all realize that whatever it is we're asked
to do, it's not about us.
I'm sorry to say that my dear friend, Mr. Willis H. Eadens, age 88, of Somerset, Kentucky passed from this life Tuesday, August 9, 2022 at Lake Cumberland Regional Hospital. I must also say that I let Mr. Eadens read this article and I told him that I wanted him to know how much he encouraged me by his willingness and example of serving. He wanted me to know and I should be fair to him that in no way was he ever "unwilling" to serve or felt like he paid his dues. I am sorry that I misrepresented him by making it sound like he did not want to serve. He was a faithful servant until the very end of his life. Again, may we all cherish the fine examples of our elders. May he rest in peace as he waits for his glorious reward in heaven with God.
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